Q: Hi, I’m struggling with shame and guilt because I was molested by my godfather in my childhood, both oral- and analsex, I’m struggling and it bothers me daily. Then I was abused orally and analy by a colleague. Two failed marriages, have 5 children, feel unsuccessful, am on sick leave with the diagnosis of evasive personality- and borderline personality disorders, weekly session with to a psychologist and visit the DPS. Is there some kind of union or something else I can share my feelings with and settle with them.
A: Hi. It’s great that you write us. We don’t know where you live, but there is an union called FMSO.
You can have a look at their website to find a center near you. Some of the centers have their own male groups, this offer for men. They also have good advice.
Good luck and you’re welcome to write us again.