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Q: I think there’s a lot of focus on abuse now days. Pocket Man, Catholic priests etc. Must we talk about these things? A: This is an issue we’ll never get rid of. There will always be children who are deprives of their dignity. But as adults, it is our…...

Q: I know I’m heterosexual, but why does my body fail me when I sleep with men? A: It’s easy for an adult to “push the right buttons” in a bubbly boy’s body. This is also something the abuser know how to exploit to justify their selfishness. Regards Ronny...

Q: I have thoughts and fantasies that scares me. Just think about if other poeple could see how I am on the inside. Why do I feel like a monster? A: We are many who have experiences things during growing up that only adults should choose or not. Equality is…...

Q: I’m dreading to call a center. I’m not sure if it’s right for me. What should I expect? A: Those who work at the centers in Norway have knowledge and experience with all forms of late effects and traumas. They know that different forms of abuse, large or small,…...

Q: I’m a 17 year old boy who’s been sexually abused by a family member. I haven’t told anyone, about what happened when I was 12 years old. My days are characterized by anger, frustration and drugs. How can I make my everydays better, and who can I talk to?…...

Q: How is it possible to get rid of the guilt, shame, angst, fear, depression, flashbacks, nightmares, etc? I was subjected to sexual abuse for 3 years, from when I was 10-13 years old. There were 3 boys who were molesting me. One of them was 3 years older, the…...

Q: I’m a 40 year old male. I’ve been struggling in 24 years after what I was put through, and I don’t know who the molester was. I’ve been told all tehse years I can’t file a repost because I do not know who the molester was, is this true?…...

Q: Hi, I need some advice regarding something. I’ve just befriended this great guy who experienced a lot of pain when growin up. He was emotionally abused by his mother and sexually abused by his sister. He takes initiative for physical closeness when we meet, after talking for a while…...

Q: I am a 37 year old man and having struggles with sex. I’ve always been sexually aggressive since I became sexually active. I’ve had many partners and been proud of that I am what I call a “giver” in the act. I’ve always secured my partners satisfaction before my…...

Q: Hi – I’ve known about your website for a while – but today I saw the two of you on TV2. First of all I’ve only good things to say about the initiative you’ve taken. I’m writing you because I’m wondering if it’s possible to be “finished” with having…...