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Was he molested by his father as a child?

Q: Hi. I know a 40 year old man and I think he’s been molested by his father. Not necessarily sexual, but related to sex one way or another, which now have turned into a form of self-loathing and difficulties maintaining normal interpersonal relationships. His economy is not good, which…...

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Have I been molested?

Q: Hi. I’ve been wondering for some time now if I’ve been molested when I was 6 til 11 years old. I have a mentally disabled uncle, whom we used to visit once or twice a year. He would take places to do something, then he would convince me to…...

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Worried mother

Q: I’ve just become a mother to a lovely little boy and wishing him all the good of life. It’s scares me that 5% of boys have been subjected sexual abuse and 85% of these assaults are by someone the child knows. What can I do as a mother to…...

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Vacation in Spain

Q: Hi! I was subjected to sexual abuse in Spain when I was 14 years old. I was in a shop selling purses to buy something for my sister. The owner got me into the backroom where I performed oral sex on him. What’s been bothering me is that I…...

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Subjected to sexual abuse

Q: I was a victim of sexual abuse in my childhood by two men. I’ve been to court and both were convicted. One of them got 9 years and 6 month in jail and the other 1 year and 4 months. I’ve been in and out of psychiatric care where…...

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Telling for the first time

Q: I’ve become an “accomplished” adult man in his 40s. I was raped by a door to door salesperson when I was 9 years old. I’ve been doing well, but always wondered if there’s a chance that I’ll become a rapist myself… Reasoned with that many abusers themselves have been…...

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